Depression in Families

It can be difficult for families to know what to do when someone has depression. The depressed person may be withdrawn and difficult to communicate with, and there might be a desperate tendency to try to cheer them up or get them to look on the bright side of life. Or there might be a nervous silence because people are afraid of "interfering".

None of these things are in the least bit useful.

Keep in mind that depression is not a private matter just for the sufferer. It is truly a family matter, and even a community matter, because of the damage it does to everyone. So the family has a right to insist that the sufferer receive and co-operate with treatment. Additionally, life and death matters take first place over privacy matters. You might want to try to help to reduce the stress level of the sufferer, but this should never involve enabling them to avoid treatment.

By becoming more aware of crucial lifestyle factors involved in depression, families can be very effective at helping to turn depression around very rapidly indeed, or even preventing depression arising in the first place.

Adequate hydration is an example of a crucial lifestyle factor that may be involved in the development of depression. We're all hearing at the moment that fluid requirements have been overestimated, but nevertheless we shouldn't overlook this factor and it pays to check. If the person is eating normal meals and drinking water, tea or coffee through the day that should be quite adequate. But if they tend to sweat profusely, or rarely take fluid, and in addition perhaps eat very little, then it's important to rectify this immediately.

Likewise a lack of adequate physical activity can create a deeply depressed state, complete with the full range of depression symptoms, like sleeping difficulty, digestive upsets or constipation/diarrhoea, dry skin, hair loss, extreme fatigue, etc. Simply by introducing a brisk 30-minute walk each day, in the company of at least one other person, you may gain a rapid improvement!

In fact there are some 17 lifestyle "mistakes", each one of which is capable of producing depression. Unfortunately these mistakes have become so common that in some families and communities they are the new norm! In protecting yourself and your family from depression, it pays to look over the check list and get life back on healthy track again!

Because depression rates are escalating so quickly, we need to do something rather urgently, and for that reason the book "17 Solutions" outlining the lifestyle mistakes and describing the answers, is freebie for anyone who wants to resolve depression in their family.

But there's more to depression than lifestyle factors, as crucial as they are! Typically the depressed person will have developed an habitual, depressed thinking style and these thoughts and feelings serve to hold the depression in place. The family can be at least a little helpful here by remaining caring, but firm. By all means hear the depressed person out, but not the same stories over and over again. Be compassionate, but do your best to be a role model of someone who is fully engaged with life, and living healthfully and happily.

But family members must not put on the therapist's hat. To do so is not only dangerous (because in most cases they are untrained and lack both knowledge and skills to deal with such sensitive and risky issues) but also pollutes the familial relationships. Professional therapy should be sought in almost every case, and the new BMSA (brief, multi-sensory activation) techniques, used as part of a quality therapy process, can completely eliminate problem thoughts and feelings very quickly.

The book "Relieving Depression - Quickly, Easily and Safely" describes how BMSA is used both in therapy and as a self-help method.

A professional counsellor will ask a host of questions relating to family and life history in order to throw a light on other factors that can play a part in the development of depression. But therapy is more than just talking about these things - it's about working together to solve issues more easily, more creatively, and more effectively, in order to live a more satisfying life.

What happens in therapy is certainly private and the legislation regarding privacy is well-known. Not so well known are the requirements of the therapist in cases where suicidality is an issue. The therapist must ask questions about suicidality, must document answers, must have written permission from the client to speak with certain family members and/or other health professionals, and such permission must specifically describe what kind of information the therapist may or may not impart to which people.

The therapist will certainly want to help the sufferer to return to a happy and fulfilling life, but in the meantime must take all possible action to ensure he/she survives.

Do be aware that if you or a family member has been prescribed antidepressants that this medication must not be stopped abruptly. The withdrawal effects have the potential to be quite catastrophic, so make sure that staged withdrawal is completed under medical supervision

By attending to lifestyle issues that may underpin or even cause depression, and also eliminating depressed thinking patterns (which are basically automatic, conditioned thinking styles) the sufferer can become free of depression not only quickly, but permanently. Although it may be very useful to purchase a self-help manual, and therapy is almost always required, you'll also find excellent information and support on the internet.

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The free book "17 Solutions" is of vital interest to families who have a depressed family member. Also the free book "Stop Wishing and Start GETTING" proves how rapidly unwanted thoughts and feelings can be completely resolved with BMSA.

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